Cedor Society

Cedor Society
Ok I'm a really bad blogger. But I'm gonna try harder. I hear its great for the soul. So lets see.....Ok, I like making cakes. I usually do them for friends and family. But lately my heart is just not in it. I helped kate make a wine bottle for her friends dirty thirty. Wow I didn't even know 30 was a bad again. What happens when you hit fourty. (as I am vastly approaching). I started thinking about this as most of my collegues are younger than myself and have recently all started calling me MOM. Scary. So I guess when you are younger and you say something careing to a friend, like "you should take better care of yourself" or "he is no good for you. You can do better." this is considered being a friend. But once you are of a certain age it becomes, Motherly instinct. I just don't see it. I have not changed in the way I treat people at all but now it seems that I am the one who will be treated differently. This sucks. I don't see any of the men my age getting called Dad at work or Gramps. My husband is a year older than myself and his work buddies come over to play pool and poker and work on his truck. But not once have I heard anything about his age. Next year he will be forty and I'm curious as to how he will handle it. His age has never seemed to bother him before. We will have to wait and see.